How To Choose The Music Selections For Your Wedding Ceremony

First and foremost, remember that your wedding should be a direct reflection of both you and your fiance’s preferences and styles. Selecting the music for your wedding ceremony can a difficult task, if you don’t know where to start or how to plan.

Before you begin looking at specific song titles and selections, you and your fiancé should consider the style that interests you. For example, if you like traditional, you probably wouldn’t want any modern songs from today and vice versa. Knowing your style will help you to determine what song titles to look for.

Some examples of styles could be:

Modern

Traditional

Contemporary

Once you have chosen your style, you can begin the fun task of picking out songs, and eliciting others for their input. This is especially important when you have parents involved in your wedding planning. While ultimately it is your decision, it’s always a good idea to bounce ideas off of others. There is no wedding police, so whatever you decide, there is no right or wrong.

As you begin to scout out songs for the big day, put a list together, with columns. It will make narrowing the list down much easier. We have several planning tools and forms on our website, which can help you with this. On a sheet of paper make some columns with the song titles and categories, then a section for the brides favorites, the groom’s favorites, the bride’s family favorites, and finally the groom’s family favorites. If you are unsure, check out our website for some examples of templates for choosing songs.

There are several elements you will need to pick songs for. Some of them include, but are not limited to:

Prelude

Pre Processional

Processional

Bride’s Entrance

Sand/Rose Ceremony

Unity Candle

Recessional

Interlude

Now is not the time to rule anything out, if it peaks your interest, put it on the list. Once you have your list together, listen to the songs two or three times. The internet has several websites which you to listen to sample clips for ideas. Your Wedding Disc Jockey is another great resource for listening to the music. Practice walking with the songs, so you can get an idea for pacing and timing. A two minute song wouldn’t work for a huge bridal party, unless you plan to play the song multiple times. Practicing and listening over and over will help you begin to narrow the list. Just remember, no matter what you decide, remember it’s your wedding, and the decision is ultimately yours. Enjoy planning your wedding, it’s going to be great!

Wedding Ceremony Song Ideas

Do you need some help picking out a few songs for your wedding ceremony.   We have several song ideas, whether you are looking for something for your processional, candle lighting, rose or sand ceremony.  Perhaps you are looking for a recessional song or something else.  Here are some great ideas:

Bride’s Processional

Ave Maria – Various: Instrumental \ Vocal
Canon In D – Classical
Chapel Of Love – Dixie Cups
Forever In Love – Kenny G
From This Moment – Shania Twain
Godfather Theme – Soundtrack
Hawaiian Wedding Song – Elvis Presley \ Andy Williams
Love Story (Theme) – Various
Song Bird – Kenny G
The Wedding Song – Kenny G \ Paul Stookey
Trumpet Voluntary – Classical
Water Music – Classical

Candlelighting Songs

Father of The Bride Theme

I Will Be Here- Steven Curtis Chapman

Canon In D- Pachabel

Only Time- Enya

The Gift- Jim Brickman

Water Music- Handel

The Four Seasons- Vivaldi

A Day Without Rain- Enya

You Raise Me Up- Josh Groban

Horn Pipe- Handel

I’ll Be Right There- Bryan Adams

May It Be- Enya

Return To Innocense- Enigma

Ribbon In The Sky- Intro

You Are So Beautiful- Joe Cocker

Special Day- Jaheim

There Is Love- Captain and Tennille

I Can Only Imagine- MercyMe

Destiny- Jim Brickman